i did it. met with my lawyer. he is forthright and funny and slyly asked if i wanted to go for my ex's retirement money. i declined, with a smile. for all my worry, it seems this will be quite an easy process and, in 30 to 45 days, it will be done.
i called tom to tell him that i won't need what i thought i would from him, that this will involve no effort or expense to him. we had the best conversation we've had in months and months. he's coming around to remembering that i'm not vengeful. he asked if we should each drive 6 hours to meet in tennessee for a celebration once the divorce is final.
i declined, with a smile.
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You'll feel better when the ties are cut. And a good upchuck can be cleansing, too. (yeech)
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